How To Make Friends In College

By Alan Rolie | July 16, 2009

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by Alan Rolie

Some people are natural at making friends while some find it really hard to make a few or if any friends at all. This could be due to a variety of reasons. Some people are just too shy to talk to anyone. Some are socio-phobic meaning that they cannot get along in social gatherings.

This does not mean that shy people do not need friends or want friends; they simply find it hard to get friends. They want friends as much as other people. Being social animals, everyone requires friends.

There are lots of potential friends to be had. It’s all about getting to break the ice. What ever the reason in difficulty in finding friends, here are some tips to find friends.

One of the best ways to get friends is it spend time with lots of people. More people mean more friends. That doesn’t mean that we need hundreds of friends, it simply means that the more people we meet, the more chances of meeting people with similar thoughts and hence making friends with them.

One of the amplest means to get friends is to pass time with lots of folks. A lot of people mean more acquaintances. That does not mean that we want hundreds of acquaintances, it merely implies that a lot of folks we encounter, the more luck of matching up with folks with exchangeable ideas and therefore making friends with them.

Another good way of making friends is going to social clubs, for example if you like karate then join a club. You are bound to meet like minded people with similar tastes. Talk to them and get friendly.

Try to volunteer. If you are passionate about eliminating world poverty, you could join a charity. There are plenty of charity organisations that require help in collection, to work in shops, talking to people, distributing leaflets etc. Not only will you be doing a worthwhile job but at the same time you can make friends.

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